I’m not sure what is so special about that morning’s events, which set off those particular tears of grief, but I believe it is important to look for the subconscious material that I had a sneaking suspicion I hadn’t processed yet.
“Let’s call this the transcendent bond, the ultimate ideal that embodies the best combination of all the elements necessary for relationship success.”
Without communication, there is no relationship. Without respect, there is no love. Without trust, there’s no reason to continue.
“In friendships, romantic relationships, family relationships, and with acquaintances either online or in reality, conflict can either be healthy or dysfunctional; you must learn the difference.”
“The woman needs to surrender and so many fight this because they don’t understand what she is surrendering to.”
You must have all elements to be a fully developed leader:
1. Be a successful follower
2. Lead yourself successfully
3. Develop others purposefully and successfully towards a goal(s)
I can’t go back and redo my twenties or even go back to puberty and start my socialization over so that I understand male/female dynamics REALISTICALLY. My life may be irreversible; I’ll have to make peace with the consequences of what you did, but I know you’re still out there doing this to other people.
“Some failures are actually failsafes that you are tested with — the ones who aren’t afraid to fail are actually succeeding in the quest for truth and transcendence!”