“Let’s call this the transcendent bond, the ultimate ideal that embodies the best combination of all the elements necessary for relationship success.”
“The woman needs to surrender and so many fight this because they don’t understand what she is surrendering to.”
I can’t go back and redo my twenties or even go back to puberty and start my socialization over so that I understand male/female dynamics REALISTICALLY. My life may be irreversible; I’ll have to make peace with the consequences of what you did, but I know you’re still out there doing this to other people.
I used to reject my girly feminine side as weak and superficial; so I celebrated my masculine strengths. Today I practice “bringing out my femininity” as much as I can to bring balance into my life and to assist me in developing successful relationships.